1. Instead of talking and telling try listening!
2. Hear what others have to say and how they feel
3. Pay attention to them
4. Take in what they are saying
5. Do not be preparing what you will say next or how you will answer
6. Do not interrupt
   
   
7. Practice empathy
8. Put yourself in the other person's shoes
9. Join in the suffering, feel what they feel with them
10. Understand from their point of view
    
    
11. Be a healer
12. Find their hurt and help them find victory
13. Honor others before yourself
14. Be respectful
15. Give them freedom to be their selves
16. Be grateful
17. Strengthen the weak
    
    
18. Be motivated by love
19. Nothing matters as much as loving and expressing love
20. No gift, no sacrifice, no belief, no position is anything without love
21. Understand their needs and seek to meet those needs
22. Do more than feel love, you must express the love
23. Love like you have been loved. The loved, love. (the love of Christ constraineth us)
24. The forgiven, forgive
    
    
25. Seek His kingdom not your own
26. Become a bridge to the success of others, lay down your life for His cause and purpose in their lives
27. Don't be critical or judge others
28. Practice humility which is not thinking of ourselves at all but making God everything
29. Stop thinking of yourself as the priority
30. Treat others the way you want to be treated

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